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Miss Manners: Was it improper how the bride announced the news?

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 20:56:19 GMT

DEAR MISS MANNERS: My niece was recently married for the second time, and as she had a formal wedding the first time, she chose to have a small, intimate ceremony in her garden this time. She invited her parents and her brother, but no other family members.This seems reasonable for a second marriage. However, I found out about her wedding through a neighbor, who saw it online. I called her to congratulate her, and she said that she hoped to have a reception sometime in the future, to which extended family would be invited.I don’t know what to expect. Should I sign up for the social media platform on which my neighbor saw the news, just in case she announces the reception in the same way she announced the wedding? Is there a kinder way to announce a wedding to which very few were invited, and to extend an invitation to a future reception?GENTLE READER: The problem with your niece’s modest (and, as both you and Miss Manners agree, praiseworthy) approach to sharing her good...

Bad luck or poor defense? The Warriors’ 3-point issue is a trend worth watching

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 20:56:19 GMT

Coach Steve Kerr and Draymond Green, in particular, blame the Warriors’ road woes this season to a lack of defensive effort. But effort was no issue in their loss to the Los Angeles Clippers on Wednesday.“That game felt right out there tonight,” Kerr said. “Doesn’t mean we always made the right play, but it’s a game of mistakes. I felt like we really competed and gave ourselves a chance. Clippers were too good tonight.”The Warriors made fewer missed rotation and miscommunication blunders this day in LA than in their previous road losses — of which they now have 27 with a nine-game losing streak away from home.But as the sample size grows, a more obvious trend has emerged.“The biggest thing, when you look at the numbers, is 3-point defense at home is dramatically better than it is on the road,” Kerr said after the Warriors’ home win against Phoenix.It’s true: Where opponents shoot 40.7% on 3-pointers on their hom...

Dear Abby: His family doesn’t know we’ve been sneaking around

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 20:56:19 GMT

DEAR ABBY: My niece’s mother-in-law of 32 years, “Helen,” died seven months ago. I have been quietly seeing her widowed husband for about three months now.For a long time, “Wayne” and I knew each other only casually. After Helen’s death, my niece, her husband and their children went on vacation because Helen’s illness had been a long, drawn-out ordeal. I was tasked with giving Wayne a nightly call to check on him, which I did. We realized we had a lot in common and, as they say, the rest is history.The problem is telling his children and grandchildren. He and Helen were married 59 years but didn’t have a happy marriage for the last 23. Should we tell them or continue keeping it a secret?UNEXPECTED LOVE IN THE EASTDEAR UNEXPECTED: Although you have no reason to be sneaking around, in my opinion you should stay quiet for another few months — until it has been a year since Helen’s passing. At that point, Wayne should tell the ...

San Diego State Aztecs play the Charleston (SC) Cougars in first round of NCAA Tournament

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 20:56:19 GMT

Charleston (SC) Cougars (31-3, 16-2 CAA) vs. San Diego State Aztecs (27-6, 15-3 MWC)Orlando, Florida; Thursday, 3:10 p.m. EDTFANDUEL SPORTSBOOK LINE: San Diego State -5; over/under is 141.5BOTTOM LINE: The No. 18 San Diego State Aztecs play in the opening round of the NCAA Tournament against the Charleston (SC) Cougars.The Aztecs have gone 15-3 against MWC opponents, with a 12-3 record in non-conference play. San Diego State is 5-0 in games decided by less than 4 points.The Cougars’ record in CAA games is 16-2. Charleston (SC) averages 11.7 turnovers per game and is 3-0 when winning the turnover battle.TOP PERFORMERS: Matt Bradley is scoring 12.9 points per game with 3.8 rebounds and 2.1 assists for the Aztecs. Jaedon LeDee is averaging 9.8 points and 5.2 rebounds over the last 10 games for San Diego State.Dalton Bolon is averaging 12.4 points for the Cougars. Ante Brzovic is averaging 13.8 points and 7.4 rebounds over the last 10 games for Charleston (SC).LAST 10 GAMES: Aztec...

Police investigating shooting on I-95 in Fort Lauderdale

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 20:56:19 GMT

An investigation is currently underway in Fort Lauderdale after a shooting took place on Interstate 95 at Broward Boulevard following reports of shots fired received by authorities just after midnight, Thursday. Live video footage revealed a white car on the side of the highway that had been riddled with bullets.The driver of the vehicle was rushed to a local hospital after being trauma alerted; their current condition is unknown. Officials from the Florida Highway Patrol and the Broward Sheriff’s Office were both on the scene conducting their investigation, which caused northbound lane closures for several hours before the expressway was reopened to traffic.Details surrounding the shooting incident are limited and authorities are yet to release any further information on what led to the incident or if any arrests have been made. If you have any information on this crime, call Broward County Crime Stoppers at 954-493-TIPS. Remember, you can always remain anonymous, and you may...

Rwanda’s genocide recovery inspired my first election win, FIFA chief says

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 20:56:19 GMT

FIFA President Gianni Infantino on Thursday said his 2016 election win was partly inspired by Rwanda’s recovery after the genocide in 1994.During a speech at FIFA’s Congress in Kigali, Rwanda, Infantino said that he was weighing pulling out of the election race — before a visit to Rwanda’s genocide memorial changed his mind.Infantino said that on a previous trip to Rwanda for a football tournament sometime before the 2016 vote an unidentified official told him that, “we really love you, but we’re not going to support you.”The Swiss-Italian football boss was on the brink of throwing in the towel when he recalled a visit to the memorial.“I said, who I am to give up,” Infantino said. “What this country has suffered and how this country came back up is inspiring for the entire world.”“So I certainly couldn’t give up because someone was telling me something,” he added. “I stayed, I attended the match, I continued to campaign … I was elected FIFA president.” In 199...

Don’t burn coal, burn your ideals! Europe’s plan to rival Chinese industry

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 20:56:19 GMT

Here’s a new bumper sticker idea for European Union officials: Don’t burn fossil fuels, set fire to your principles instead. The European Commission is preparing to ditch a raft of long-held free-market ideals in order to compete in a global clean energy arms race with China and the U.S. Targets, quotas and state subsidies are back, in a big way. That’s left some Brussels grandees reeling.“This direction is quite dangerous,” said Günther Oettinger, Germany’s former European commissioner. “It’s not a single market, it’s a planned economy more and more: a centralized, planned economy. Planwirtschaft as we say in German.”On Thursday, the European Commission will propose a Net-Zero Industry Act, setting a target for 40 percent of the EU’s clean tech to be built inside the bloc by 2030. Leaked drafts have galled liberals, who accused Brussels of 1960s-style central planning. Alongside that, the Commission, the EU’s executive arm, will announce a new law aimed at cutting Europe’s d...

‘It’s a sad day’: Grafton home destroyed after car crashes into it, causing major damage

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 20:56:19 GMT

A home in Grafton has been deemed “a total loss” after an SUV crashed into the back of the structure Wednesday afternoon. Half of the home was torn down Wednesday night as crews remained on scene to secure what was left behind. “It’s a sad day,” homeowner John McNamara said as his home of 15 years came down. “[A] lot of people remember certain days like your wedding or your kids or whatever,” McNamara said. “Well, I’m going to remember this day when I’m getting forced out of my house and I got to start all over again.” First responders were seen working earlier in the day at the home at the intersection of Millbury Street and Providence Road just after 4 p.m.McNamara said he had just arrived home from work to greet his wife when the car hit their house. He said he and his wife heard a loud bang “like a bomb went off.” McNamara said he then went to the side of the house and saw the car. Firefighters had to cut one woman out of the Lexus SUV. Another wo...

Crumbled debris from ceiling found on platform at Forest Hills MBTA station

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 20:56:19 GMT

Crews were on scene at the MBTA’s Forest Hills station in Jamaica Plain on Wednesday after crumbled debris was found on the station’s Commuter Rail platform.The T said Wednesday night that the debris were padding used around ceiling joints. The T said the debris weighed less than one pound. The broken debris looked to have fallen from the station’s ceiling area above the platform during Wednesday’s morning commute. The T said both the MBTA and Keolis, which operates and maintains the Commuter Rail system, sent crews to the platform to investigate what happened. This incident happened just a matter of weeks after a ceiling tile fell at the Harvard MBTA station in Cambridge earlier this month.Video showed the tile barely missing a woman walking nearby. The incident resulted in additional tiles being inspected and removed. After this incident at Forest Hills, riders reacted.“The whole system should have some sort of overhaul — a systems check,” Jason Kava...

Bruins beat: Issues arising for B’s

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 20:56:19 GMT

The time to panic has not yet arrived, Bruins fans. But a healthy concern is not out of line.The B’s have lost three out of four and for the first time this year, two straight in regulation. In the last two losses, they allowed 11 goals to non-playoff teams (Chicago and Detroit). In the last four games, it could be argued the B’s have been outplayed in the first period, even in the game in which they held a 2-0 lead against the Edmonton Oilers.That very well could be a sign of a true contender’s early spring fever, when the team knows it is going to the playoffs and is just going through the motions. And truth be told, the B’s have been able to flip the switch and dominate the game at certain stretches.Showing up on time should be easily remedied once the games start to matter again.What’s more troublesome is the number of turnovers and odd-man rushes that are being allowed. Prior to the Chicago game, coach Jim Montgomery said his goalies’ stellar...